Multiple personality in order??

I am in an introspection phase now, looking back on all these years and my learnings...If i were to do a postmortem of myself, i find not only different organs, but different personalities hiding within me...
Like everyone I have a social circle of people close to my heart... for once I just tried being the other to think what i probably mean to them , or what they think of me....My mind throws out many answers, not one. It baffles my own self on how two of my very close friends might think completely opposite of me.

If two of my friends were to describe me, probably both will have descriptions on completely different tangents.

So who am i?? Is there a real me??

Some might see me as a calm and composed person, some think am all ruffled and tensed. Some look up to me for advice, some think i need all the guidance and protection.Some think am a big chatterbox, some think am extremely quiet and shy. Some see me as an example of enjoyment of life, some think i am an absolute introvert and lack social skills.some think am practical and some will strongly bet against me being practical. some think i am the most easy to convince, some feel am an extremely difficult person to convince. I can be a tyrant , i can be a complete opposite.

Can anyone be all this and more?In this quest of exploring the multiple people in me... i wonder.. do all of us have different , sometimes diametrically opposite characteristics in us?

Mails and gyaan on life :..

I have got some mails several times. Same content, different ways of presentation...Sometimes i wish i had a software to skim through my mails just to identify mails with the same content so that I can delete all those duplicates..

Today i was going through each one of my mails to clear some space and organize my mailbox and heres one mail ,the content of one which I liked a lot :)

The 13 phrases of LIFE.

• I love you not for who you are, but who I am when I’m by your side.
• No person deserves your tears, and who deserves them won’t make you cry.

• Just because someone doesn’t love you as you wish, it doesn’t mean you’re not loved with all his/her being.

• A true friend is the one who holds your hand and touches your heart.

• The worst way to miss someone is to be seated by his/her side and know you’ll never have him/her.

• Never stop smiling, not even when you’re sad, someone might fall in love with your smile.

• You may only be a person in this world, but for someone, you’re the world.

• Don’t spend time with someone who doesn’t care spending it with you.

• Maybe God wants you to meet many wrong people before you meet the right one, so when this happens, you’ll be thankful.

• Don’t cry because it came to an end. Smile because it happened

• There will always be people, who’ll hurt you, so you need to continue trusting, Just be careful.

• Become a better person and be sure to know who you are before meeting someone new and hoping that person knows who you are.

• Don’t struggle so much, best things happen when not expected.

Memories gone??...

I treat my photos as memoirs... frames that capture time and put it in like a capsule...Yesterday i misplaced my memory chip of my cam..
I had just taken it out to transfer the precious memories of the past few weeks.. Before i could i started doing something else and in the multitasking mess..i lost it somewhere...I am still hoping i find it somewhere.. somewhere suddenly it pops up...but if it does not.. :((

I feel i've lost something very very precious.. i know its just a memory card.. and all my cribbing has not helped..(except that I irritated some of my friends cribbing i had lost the card)

Just yesterday it was there today its gone.. makes me think this is what happens to anything in life.. someday everything is nice and rosy.. u feel like the best person in the world.. ur made to feel like the world... the very next day.. reality bites bites hard.. and u wake up from the dream that ur as screwed up as anyone else..

A lil memory card has sure made me think too much...

Like i hope for many things to happen...Like i hope many of lifes jigsaw puzzles to get solved... short term...I wish and pray i get my memory card back....

Through the looking glass...

I have never been some ardent fan of glasses..... but this one glass caught my eye...Well it was laid for a banquet function in the hotel...
Have noticed many interesting and unique pieces of crockery before...but this was spectaculat.. simple geometrics...yet the appeal would be great...
Check it out...




now note.. i have not taken the photo in an angle.. the base is tilted... so the glass kinda imitates the Leaning tower of Pisa :)



Upside down :)

That was the part of the setup it was part off.. the whole decoration was beautiful.. this was in the prep area:)